Hot Seat Discussion – August 28, 2018

Tossing Salt Presents:
The Hot Seat Discussion
August 28, 2018

“The Hot Seat Discussion” is an adults only group that I belong to on Facebook and let’s just say that nothing is off limits with these folks. They love to ask the most provocative and interesting questions that most people would be reluctant to answer. Luckily for everyone, I’m not most people. It’s all in good fun and what the hell, it’s content for the site. A win – win for everyone. Go hit the search button and find these folks at Facebook. Join the fun. And as for these most recent questions, let’s do this…

Who was your favorite 90’s couple?

I can barely remember the 90’s, much less who was dating who and what couples were making the headlines. I guess I’ll go with the hippest pair of heterosexual life-mates that I know for my pick, Jay & Silent Bob. And if you don’t klnow who they are, we can’t be friends anymore. Look them up. You’ll be glad you did.

Can a man really be faithful to one woman?

Yes and can a woman be really faithful to one man? Again, it’s yes. If the love is true and the other person completes them and they truly value, love and respect each other, anything, even being faithful, is possible. But now for the question that really matters to me. Can a gay guy really be faithful to one man? And it’s no because we’re pretty much a bunch of ho’-dogs that think with the little head more than the big one. If it’s sexy and an option to get the freak on, we’re going to go for it. That’s why so many of us gay men are either sex addicts or alcoholics. Not every single gay man is a ho’, but as I’ve seen far too many times, most are.

Can you handle making love more than three times a day? Yes or no?

I’m old and fat. Sometimes, more than once a week is pushing it lol. I’m kidding. Not about being old and fat, but about the numbers game. Once daily is easy and if it’s someone I’m really into and feeling the lust for, three times is a possibility It’s more all about the person than anything else.

What’s the first thing you reach for after sex?

My car keys to go home. And my Diet Mt. Dew. Getting people off can build a powerful thirst and I need to get that taste out of my mouth anyhow…

If you’re really feeling a woman and she sleeps with you on the first date, does that change the way you feel about her?

No because I’m not a hypocrite. I sleep around on the first date so how can I judge someone else for getting horny and wanting to bump uglies? Besides, this life is too short and you have to make the most out of every opportunity and lose yourself in the moment. No need to put things off because you may never get another chance.

And there you go. Just 5 questions this time because I did an edition of this “Hot Seat Discussion” a couple of days ago and I’m finally running out of questions. Time to go get some more. Any questions, comments or thoughts you might have, feel free to send them to me and let’s talk. I want to hear from YOU! And if you’re a single guy in the Scotland County area, kind of hot and fun to be around and think we might click, I want to hear from you as well. Yes, asking for hook-up’s on the blog. It’s either this or Grindr and I think the people who read my material are far hotter and a better class than those others. The more you know. So talk to me. And I guess that’s it. Until the next time, take care of yourself and each other. Have a great one.


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