Twenty Questions (Part 3 of 3)
May 5, 2017

And finally, here we are with the third part of what has been three parts of the nearly infamous, but not quite there, “Twenty Questions” mini-series. I found these great questions that are just too deep to be answered in short little comments. They require thinking, thoughts and lots of alcohol being consumed. Okay, I don’t have any alcohol, but hopefully Diet Mt. Dew will suffice. Let’s just jump right to it and tackle these novel novelties. Let’s do it…

What is something that can’t be taught and can only be learned with age?

Patience. Nah, that can be taught to some while they’re young and others never get it so while it’s a good answer, it’s not the best answer. When to act and when to remain silent. That’s kind of like patience, but something more learned from watching others and living life. I guess I’ll go with maturity. If comes from, quite simply, growing, both literally and in life, and the other things I mentioned, like patience and learning to pick your spots, are part of that package. One can observe and learn from the actions of others, but to be truly mature and grown, once must learn and experience for him or herself.

If you could be born again and choose what nationality, gender, and race to be, what would you choose? Why?

I don’t think I’d change a thing. I’d be a white, male American all over again. As for why? Why ask why? It is who I am and what I know and what I am. Why would I desire to be anyone else?

If you could live your life again knowing what you do now, what would you change?

I’d change some of my slightly not-so-good habits from my past. I would never have done and drinking and driving. And several of the opportunities I had in the past, with several different people, would change too. I wouldn’t have been quite so reluctant or shy and would have gone for the gusto far more often back in the day instead of hesitating and letting those opportunities pass me by.

How much do you change when you know no one is around?

I don’t think I change all that much, except maybe loosen up a bit and relax a slight bit more. With me, what you see is what you get, period. I don’t have to pretend to be anyone or anything I’m not, with the exception of occasionally being nice to people in public. This is me, be it in private or public. Take me or leave me. Your choice.

How much do you know about the world outside your country?

Not as much as I’d like, but probably as much as or more than most people. I read papers. I talk to people from other places and listen to their stories. I’m not quite ready to go work at the United Nations, but I’m not totally lost or ignorant when it comes to others sharing our planet.

What is a cause that is worth dedicating your life to?

Something I’m involved in, more by accident than design, is helping to feed people and provide food for people who can’t afford it. That’s pretty cool. I’d also like to get more involved in helping to prevent teen suicide, especially among gay youths. I remember how it was when I was young and the anxiety, the depression, etc. No one should have to deal with that shit alone like I had to on so many occasions. I’d like to find a way to provide an ear to bend and a shoulder to cry on for those youths today who need that little extra support and a friend.

What should parents stop teaching their children?

Parents, especially around here, should stop teaching their kids to live off the government and mooch off the system and instead, work, be honest and go out there and fend for themselves, with a strong independent nature. The way people are being raised today is that hard work is a bad thing and that in our entitlement society, it’s better to let the Government provide instead of going out there and earning what you have. If someone offends you, people now want to cry “racist” or go file a lawsuit. Why not be an adult and ignore the B.S. and instead concentrate on being a better person who wants the best of life and is willing to go to school, work two jobs, support your family, etc. Kids today are taught that everyone owes them and they don’t have to accept responsibility for their actions, and quite often, it’s the parents teaching them this stuff via example. But the truth is, no one owes anyone anything. If you want a nice car or nice place to live or money in your pocket, then go out and work. Find a job, set an example, bust your tail and earn it. It’s just that simple. I try not to ask anyone for anything because if I don’t have the money or resources to get it myself, legally, then I don’t need it. Today, kids are taught that if someone else has something nice and you want it, steal it, lie for it, cheat them or rip them off. And if that doesn’t work, call them racist and destroy what they got. Just because they worked hard and earned what they have and you couldn’t be bothered to get out of bed until 2pm after a night of smoking weed and f*cking the crack-ho down the block, it’s not your fault. You deserve it all too, right? Nah, I don’t think so. Parents need to start taking control of their kids again and establishing rules and respect, for themselves and others. Until that happens, things will never get better. It’s all about personal responsibility. ‘Nuff said!

And I guess that’s it, the end of the third of what has been three parts. Thank you for reading. Questions and comments are welcome. I’m Doug and I’m down and I’m gone. Have a great day!

Ubuntu!