Sometimes, you just need to look at the big picture…  the good versus the bad, the truth versus the lies, and how things really are when the rose-colored glasses are taken off.  It totally changes the dynamics of everything.  Relationships and friendships should be give and take and mutually beneficial to both parties.  When it’s all give and no take and only one person reaps the benefits while the other is taken for granted, that means it’s time to either make major changes or cut the ties.  I’m not comfortable with having to change, but I’m even less comfortable with being someone’s bitch.  Enough is enough and it’s time to make a move, one way or another…