Hot Seat Discussion II – June 9, 2018

Hot Seat Discussion II
June 9, 2018

One of the groups on Facebook that I’m a part of is called “The Hot Seat Discussion” and although I’m still not sure how I became a part of this group, there is no way in hell I would ever leave. The discussion and questions asked are very adult themed and it’s definitely not for kiddies. But a person can learn so much with questions like these. I decided to go ahead and answer some of the most recent, tamer questions asked over the past few days and make a piece out of it. There are only a few questions today, but they are good ones. Again, I must stress that these are adult questions and while I’ll try not to be too over the top or explicit with my answers, no promises. After all, I gotta be me, right? Let’s give this a go and see what happens. Let’s do this…

Do all men pay for sex in one way or another?

Unless you’re only getting whoopie through websites and social media where it’s no strings banging an anonymous stranger, you’re paying for it in some way. It might be money, but it could be with your time, providing a ride or place to stay, looking after their kids, etc. Nothing is free and sex is absolutely not free at all. It might just be your soul, but you’ll always end up paying something.

Should a woman still date when she’s broke and struggling?

That would be the main time to date and keep a moment of hope and have a break from the despair and misery, even if only for a few hours. If all you do is struggle and fight and never get a break, you’ll fall victim to depression and never find a way out. Don’t go all crazy, but don’t deny yourself either. Everyone deserves a little happiness and a moment in the light. Go for it.

Men age 40 or over, what advice would you give men in their 20’s?

The main thing is if you have an opportunity, don’t second guess yourself and make excuses. Go for it and take the plunge or else otherwise, you’ll always be wondering “what if”…

Men, give the ladies some relationship advice?

Just be real, be yourself, give as well as take in the relationship, be faithful and lastly, never forget the balls.

During sex, name the one thing you keep on.

I always keep my socks on. I have rough looking feet due to the diabetes and would rather keep them covered up. Other than that, it’s anything goes and let it all hang out.

What do women text men when they want to have sex?

They talk about dinner and catching a movie or having something that they need help for, etc. Any kind of discussion that will get the man over to their place or else give them a reason to go to his place will work.

What do men text women when they want to have sex?


And there you go. Comments, thoughts and any questions are welcome and appreciated. Let me know what you think and should I continue doing these “Hot Seat Discussions”? Until the next time, I’m down and gone. Have a great one and I’ll see you on the go-round. Take care.


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